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"Lack of communication is the leading cause of celibacy."

— Jean Singer

     

Visit the Shut Up and Date™
Chat Room (free):

We encourage the free exchange of ideas, opinions, and wrong numbers.

If you're a beginner, Jean suggests the following starting point:

"Hello. My name is _____. I am a chat room virgin. Is anybody out there?"

 

Not getting a pop-up window?
Click here instead.

 

Other Ways to Meet Online:

See more pics at Mingles!

Mingles.com

They have PhotoChat, so you can see who you're chatting with, plus pithy tips and a user-friendly look.

 

 

AmericanSingles.com

AmericanSingles.com

They're huge.

 

Find Your Sould Mate

eHarmony.com

A scientific approach to dating, as overseen by a PhD (ages 30 to 55 are their specialty).

 

CollegeLuv.com

Because studying isn't enough.

 

Yahoo! Personals - Believe

YahooPersonals.com

How can we leave out Yahoo! ?

 

Match.com

A dating Goliath.

 

Alternative Lifestyle Sites:

Find someone else who doesn't call it "alternative."

vegetarian singles, vegan singles, rawfood singles

Veggiedate.com

This site is no meat market.

 

Gay.com Personals

Gay.com

Where the boys are.

 

glimpse.com

Glimpse.com

Where the boys and girls are.

 

PlanetOut Personals

PlanetOut.com

Yet more boys and girls.

 

Faith-Oriented Dating Sites:

Love your religion? Focus your search to those who feel the same way. Hate it? Date someone with a better one.

JDate.com

For Jewish singles and the people who love them. Try it. It's better than schlepping to temple.

 

Matchmaker.com

Once you sign up, you can select the religious community of your choice.

 

International Dating Sites:

Jean does not recommend long distance relationships for any non-masochists. However, for those determined to ignore the nation's foremost expert on such matters:

Metrodate.com

Date in major cities all over the planet such as London, Cairo, Rekjavik... Even Chicago.

 

Find Love Online

DatingDirect.com

British.

   

Shut Up and Date™ recommends these helpful guidelines for those engaged in internet dating:

1. You must continue to wash yourself regularly (once a week is not "regularly").

2. You must continue to eat and drink. For those unwilling to take a break, consider using a plastic keyboard cover.

3. If you have been online for six hours without a break, LOOK AWAY FROM YOUR COMPUTER SCREEN. If you sense a tingling in your lower abdomen, it's not love — you probably have to go to the bathroom.

 
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